Modern neuroscience struggles to end addiction, but it seems addiction is as commonplace and hard to stop as when Uncle Ozzie did fifty years ago.
My uncle Ozzie died last year, at age 92. He quit smoking permanently fifty years earlier. He had been smoking for a quarter century at that point, having begun at age 18.
I came home from college for my grandfather's funeral around that time. I noticed Ozzie NOT smoking, and asked him why he had quit. He told me this story:
I was in a bar having lunch. They had just raised the price of cigarettes from $.30 to $.35. As I put my money in the machine, a woman co-worker said, "Look at Ozzie. He's a real sucker for the tobacco companies. They've got him by the short hairs. If they raised the price of cigarettes to a dollar, he'd pay."
I said, "You're right. I'm quitting."
She asked me, "Can I have that pack you just bought?"
I said, "What, and waste 35 cents?" I smoked that pack and haven't smoked since.
Ozzie, how long did you smoke?
Twenty-five years. I started when I was 18. I smoked four packs a day of unfiltered Pall Malls. I kept a cigarette lit constantly next to me at my work bench (Ozzie repaired radios and televisions). I had a nasty habit. My fingers were stained yellow with nicotine.
Did you think much about quitting?
I never thought about it before that moment.
I should tell you this about Ozzie. He was a militant union man. He was shop steward at his company. Whenever a fellow employee was in trouble, Ozzie went to bat for them. Ozzie was constantly punished by management for his activism. They sent him to the roughest parts of the city to make repair calls. (Of course, the people there loved Ozzie - he was coming to fix their TVs!)
Please answer the following quiz about Uncle Ozzie:
1. Why did Ozzie quit smoking that day, based on a few words from a co-worker?
2. How can a simple thought overcome a powerful quarter-century addiction?
3. Ozzie had a small daughter and a teen son, but he didn't quit smoking because of them, even though he was a good father. Why didn't he?
4. What about Ozzie's withdrawal?
5. Describe Ozzie's behavior from the framework that addiction is a chronic brain disease.
Uncle Ozzie Quiz-How to quit Addiction
1. He helped people. How could he possibly allow for others to think of him 'as a sucker for the tobacco companies'....powerful tobacco companies!!!Maybe even like the other 'powers' he fought against.
2. The same simple thought that enticed him to start smoking in the first place. simply.
3. He made his own decisions....he would not have allowed his children to hold that against him.....he was a caring man.
4. A personal withdrawal....the moment was right for him......what withdrawal.....it was just a decision.
5. It is a chronic indecision, that is all. Everyone has reasons for NOT wanting to make a decision......