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Donating money makes us happy. Is that why we do it?

As my second official post, I'll point our readers to a finding that recently appeared in Science. Elizabeth Dunn (UBC) and her colleagues demonstrated that giving money to others makes us more happy overall than using that money for ourselves.

While not emphasized in their paper, I think these findings raise an intriguing question that turns out to have a deep history in philosophy and in psychology: Do we ever act in a truly altruistic fashion? Many social scientists answer in the negative. For them, the only plausible motivation for any human action is self-interest. Now, if I take the Dunn et al. findings at face value, and decide that I'm going to start donating to charity solely because it will improve my happiness, I'm acting selfishly am I not? So is it possible that the only reason we do things that appear altruistic on the surface is for the happiness they bring us? That helping is just one among many things we can do to feel good (eat good food, have sex, go to a movie), and that's why we do it? (This question directly led to one of the most fruitful debates in social psychology--between those who think that we sometimes act solely out of concern for others and those who think we only help others for the hedonic rewards it provides). I'll let others chime in on the possibility of true altruism... 

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--"giving money to others

--"giving money to others makes us more happy overall than using that money for ourselves". Of course, there are obvious examples where that is not the case e.g. tax or alimony. And an example of giving pleasure with out there being obvious self interest: paying your partner's credit card bill. That's altruism.


obvious self interest

Anonymous, you wrote: "an example of giving pleasure with out there being obvious self interest: paying your partner's credit card bill. That's altruism."

Paying a partner's credit card bill, or doing anything considerate for a loved one, benefits the relationship, and thus you. The real question is, is it altruism even if there's no clear benefit? Because self-sacrifice brings self-satisfaction, which itself is a benefit.


Jesus is considered by many

Jesus is considered by many to be altruistic. Yet he is quoted to saying not my will but yours be done.
He is responding to fear of disapointing is God (father), or he is seeking approval of his God (father). Which does not seem to show him as altruistic.


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