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Power to the People

It's time to level the playing field. Therapists have had the upper hand in this psychotherapy gig long enough - this blog will help clients make the most of their time, effort and dollar.

Think about it: therapists spend years in school, read stacks of books and have countless hours of experience perfecting our craft. Clients seeking our help don't always have those tools. They'll come in, sit down and ask in earnest "so how does this work, anyway?" Valuable session time can stretch into weeks or even months educating clients about the rules, roles, techniques and theories that make therapy work. And all too often we therapists misinterpret this lack of information as "resistance".

I envision this blog as a place to empower the client and demystify the process. Where people can learn how to prepare for sessions and talk about difficult issues. A place to learn why professional boundaries are so important, to understand the significance of the therapeutic relationship, and to learn what to do when feeling stuck. I plan to cover these topics and many others - there's plenty of rich soil to till when it comes to the mysteries of therapy.

These ideas for client empowerment have bounced around in my head for many years, but are in no way complete. I gladly seek your input for topics and will do my best to address them. While this blog will be written primarily to clients, I expect a healthy amount of kibitzing from my fellow therapists and I welcome your input as well. I have no corner on the market when it comes to therapeutic wisdom, I'm growing and learning like everyone else.

Thanks for clicking through, and check back soon.

 

Comments

a very considerate thought..

a very considerate thought.. i am very interested in this discussion.. i have been in therapy for few months and i am terminating it tomorrow. not because i don't like my therapist but because i feel the boundaries were too overpowering for me..and it was not his fault, this is how a therapeutic relation is in definition. let me know what you think


thank you

Thanks for your comment, Rab. I'll be covering therapeutic boundaries in an upcoming blog. I'm sorry to hear the boundaries were overpowering for you; their main purpose is to protect you both and provide structure. Keep checking back, and thanks again.


interesting

I am interested to see the continuation of this topic. I think far too many times, the therapist will see the patients who tend to get "stuck" as a way of not "working" Yet, as you have said, the patient is not the one who has had years of training as to how to get in touch with one's emotions. This in turn can cause a major roadblock in the success of treatment for the therapist leaves so much up to the patient as to where to begin each session when in essence, sometimes guidance is needed and not necessarily a weakness.


On Your Mark. Ready. Set. Go.

Knowing the rules early on is exactly what we need so we can all get in there and get our hands dirty. Let the games begin!


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