Just when I think significant progress is being made toward increasing the
acceptance and positive perception of counseling, something will occur to lead
me to question that. The latest occurrence was a recent interaction I
had at a bank. Upon seeing my checks made out to Dr., I was asked by the bank
teller "What kind of doctor are you?" I'm a psychologist, I said. He then asked, "A clinical psychologist?" I said yes, then, "You must deal with a lot of crazy people."

Today I bumped into an acquaintance I’m quite fond of, who was holding a bouquet of flowers. Of course, I shared how beautiful they were, and I quickly noticed a tinge of discomfort. She mentioned they were from her somewhat recent ex-boyfriend with whom she was dating for 2+years.