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The Sneaky F*cker Theory (and Other Gay Ideas)

In my last post, I invited you to submit your questions to me about any aspect of human behaviour that you'd like to know more about but hadn't the time, energy, or know-how to track down the answers. Quite a few of you responded, on topics ranging from the best treatment for spider phobias to whether "evil" people are self-aware. There were many interesting questions for me to choose from, but because several questions dealt with one particular topic - the natural foundations of homosexuality - I've decided to focus here on that issue. I should say first, though, that this is an enormously complex topic with a vast literature behind it, so I'll just pick out what I think are some of the more interesting empirical facts. And by the way, think of this not so much as a "pro-gay" post but more an "anti-stupid" post.

I'm certainly not the only evolutionary-minded psychologist who happens to be gay, but some people find it surprising that a homosexual male would be sympathetic to a theoretical framework that seems to suggest he's a biological anomaly. One needn't a very deep understanding of Darwinian concepts to get the gist of the irony: at the heart of natural selection theory is genetic replication, and the best way to promulgate one's genes is to engage in reproductive sex, something that people of my ilk often consider to be rather, well, icky. Yet, as we'll see, genetic replication can occur by means other than direct reproduction. I've a slew of straight biological relatives who share my genetic material, and their reproductive success is my reproductive success.

But let's back up a bit. First, one reader ("ill") asked me to address whether LGBT people (this acronym always reminds me of a sandwich) are born this way or whether they make a conscious/unconscious decision to be so. This is a very important question because oftentimes it's embedded in moralistic debates, which in turn serve to inform policy. It's also a question that's especially prone to the naturalistic fallacy, a logico-deductive reasoning error that erroneously implies that what is natural is good. The argument goes something like this: If people choose to be gay, they're choosing to go against nature, therefore being gay is wrong. Never mind the fact that occasional homosexual activities occur in more animal species than not and are in fact perfectly compatible with nature, but by this logic, brushing our teeth and wearing deodorant are also morally wrong because they're both unnatural deeds. Yet, strangely enough, neither the religious right nor puerile homophobes seem to be as focused on these flagrant offences of the natural olfactory order.

But for those who still insist on subscribing to the naturalistic fallacy, what you're basically telling us is that, if you really wanted to, you could choose to get an erection by watching another man (well, at least a good-looking man) get naked. You just choose not to, is that it? On that note, here are some scientific tidbits about homophobia:

• A study by Henry Adams and his colleagues at the University of Georgia showed that, on a penile plethysmograph measure, aggressively homophobic men tend to get sexually aroused by explicit gay male pornography.

• According to Vanderbilt psychologist Bunmi Olatunji and his colleagues, homophobia is a misnomer, given that aversion to gays does not represent an actual phobia, but is rather driven primarily by disgust and irrational contagion beliefs.

• Similarly, Cornell researcher David Pizarro (who has his own blog column here at PT, incidentally) further revealed in a recent study that individuals who have a low-disgust sensitivity threshold (that is, they're easily grossed out) are more likely to hold both conservative attitudes and to be averse to gays.

• Based on survey studies, evolutionary psychologist Gordon Gallup has argued that homophobic reactions are rooted to people's folk theory that children "learn" to be gay by being exposed to gay adults. Thus, because parents have a vested genetic interest in the reproductive status of their biological offspring, homophobia is exacerbated whenever gay people have contact with children.

It's never been clear to me why, even if it were true that being gay came down to personal choice, it would be any less OK than if it were completely biologically determined. In fact, this isn't likely to put me on good terms with the ACLU, but there's some reason to believe that not all gay people are "born" gay. And that's simply this: there are many examples where one identical twin is homosexual and the other isn't. If it were as straightforward as a genetic cause, identical twins (who, if it hasn't registered yet, are genetically identical) would be perfectly concordant on this trait. So, although there is indeed a strong component of heritability for sexual orientation - identical twins do have a moderately significant rate of concordance for homosexuality, it's just not perfectly concordant - obviously it can't simply be boiled down to a "gay gene."

Does this mean it's a choice after all? Hardly. Just like any complex trait, homosexuality is almost certainly a matter of having a genetic predisposition to turn out gay, but requiring a specific developmental milieu to be expressed phenotypically. (Nancy Segal, are you out there somewhere in the PT blogosphere?)

Some of the most important environmental variables identified by researchers as being correlated with homosexuality are factors in the prenatal environment, which is a topic that another reader ("Leah") asked me to discuss. Remember that development doesn't just start on your birthday, but before you ever shimmied into this world through you mom's birth canal you had nine months of the prenatal environment to shape and influence your brain.

When it comes to homosexual orientation, several findings have indicated a reasonably strong prenatal effect. First, the more older biological brothers (but not stepbrothers) a boy has, the more likely it is that he will be gay. This fraternal birth order effect is explained by the maternal immune hypothesis: some mothers appear to become progressively immunised against male-specific antigens by each succeeding male foetus. This maternal immunisation, in turn, means that her anti-male antibodies increasingly interfere with the sexual differentiation of each succeeding male foetus's brain. (Recall that the "default" gender in prenatal development is female.) Interestingly, recent findings indicate that the fraternal birth order effect occurs only for right-handed males.

Prenatal hormonal effects also appear to leave specific "signatures" on physical development. One of the best bio-demographic makers of sexual orientation is the length of the index finger relative to the ring finger (otherwise known as the 2D:4D effect). How's this for a gaydar heuristic? Straight men and lesbians most often have shorter index fingers than ring fingers. This is proposed to be the product of high prenatal testosterone. But for gay men, just like straight women, this digit ratio difference is smaller, and sometimes even reversed. This reverse 2D:4D trend tends to be more pronounced the more effeminate the gay man, and interestingly also predicts preference for receptive anal intercourse (in other words, the longer a gay man's index finger and the shorter his ring finger, the more likely he is to be a "bottom").

Let me wrap up by mentioning a few of the very creative theories that scholars have come up with to explain homosexuality from an evolutionary perspective, which is something "Phill" wanted me to discuss. Remember, being gay seems to fly in the face of natural selection theory, and one might expect nature to have aggressively selected against any genetic substrate that lent itself to such a blatantly anti-reproductive trait. I can't possibly cover all of the vicissitudes of these evolutionary theories, nor address all of them, but I'll summarise the central points. By the way, virtually all theories in this area focus on male homosexuality; lesbianism has been almost completely ignored by evolutionary theorists.

As evolutionary psychologist David Buss has said, homosexuality is a "genuine evolutionary puzzle," so take your pick among these possible solutions (or come up with your own):

E.O. Wilson's kin altruism theory states that homosexuality was a rare but functional alternative to traditional routes of increasing inclusive fitness because gay people in the ancestral past, who weren't burdened with their own kids, helped to raise, care for, and provide resources to their other genetic relatives, such as nieces and nephews. (This one doesn't quite gel, especially when you consider that a gay person's resources are usually funneled to their same-sex partners. Also, for most people, being gay doesn't exactly endear you to your relatives.)

• Evolutionary psychologist Frank Muscarella's alliance formation theory proposes that, in the ancestral past, homoerotic behaviours by young men with high status older men would have been an effective strategy for climbing up the social ladder. (Think Ancient Greece, or maybe Mark Foley?)

John Maynard Smith is often credited with what is colloquially called the "sneaky f*cker theory," which argues that gay men in the ancestral past had unique access to the reproductive niche because females let their guards down around them and other males didn't view them as sexual competitors. (I rather like this one: remember, we're not infertile, we're just gay. Although in my case, it'd take a lot of gin to work.)

Comments

lmao

Funny and informative, and I loved it to death--especially that last past.

On the finger ratio thingy, I'm a woman whose left hand has a longer ring finger and my (dominant) right hand has ring finger and index finger of almost the exact same length, with the ring finger being only slightly longer. I thought that was interesting, because I don't generally orient myself in any specific way.


Evolutionary benefits of lesbianism?

Hmm, I was pondering the kin altruism theory vi-a-vis homosexual women. It makes sense to have extra, childfree women around to help support widows (all those sabre tooth tigers...) and their young children. However, as a lesbian mother myself my experience is that, to a woman, my romantic partners have been far more self-absorbed than heterosexual women of similar age and circumstances and jealous of my attention to my children.

It could be that, as a mother, I've simply attracted those women (and, it has to be said, men) who are needful of mothering. Or it could be that homosexual women are generally emotionally under-developed.


There seems to be a theory

There seems to be a theory you left out, and I would like your input on it. It is that homosexuality is a spectrum problem(in the sense it hinders reproductive success, not morally wrong or anything like that.) That in certain situations and environments having a more effeminate brain leads to reproductive success. Hispanic men who are know as being Latin lovers have a higher rate of homosexuality. It could be that a more effeminate brain increased reproductive success and homosexuality is just too far along the spectrum. Evolution didn't select out homosexuality because most of the time it increased chances of reproduction, and the few outliers were a reasonable cost. This would also explain homophobia. If for instance you are a member of a family who has brain feminizing genes (aroused by men just like the aggressive homophobes you spoke about earlier) then enforcing heterosexuality allows someone to reap the benefits of the feminine brain without paying the evolutionary cost because his relatives will be forced to have heterosexual sex and spread their(and his homophobic relatives) genes.


Hi, James: I think your

Hi, James: I think your ideas probably do have some currency, though they'd need some cashing out. It's an empirical question, for example, as to whether men who are attracted to other men as well as women are in fact more reproductively successful. One might also examine whether women find such men more desirable; my hunch is that most women aren't generally attracted to the sexually androgynous type of male you mention, but I could be wrong.


Hello Dr. Jesse, Your post

Hello Dr. Jesse,

Your post was very interesting to read, especialy the "sneaky f*cker theory". Thanks for share this informations. I'm very curious about it and I'll be wait for the next posts. Have a nice day.


The question...

Hmmm...how did I know you weren't going to address the chunky girl baby theory?


Why do you say that? My

Why do you say that? My guess is that there's probably not enough research on that particular topic.


That was GAY

...but you have some very good points. It is disheartening the way the moral police have made "objectivity" a bad word. Certainly there must be patterns.
I'm not agreeing with you, but the path towards excepting being "GAY", is by understanding what it is and what can't be defined as well. I treat "GAY" people different then "straight" people... and I am tired of being told that this is wrong, because it works for me and it works for the people I know. There are benefits to being gay. It is time we recognized this and stopped looking down on them. It's nice to have a higher disposable income now isn't it Sneaky F*cker? Don't tell me life is a burden, because your doing just fine.

...and fag hag ladies? shut the fuck up. you know he gets away with murder.


I don't understand

I don't understand why there needs to be evolutionary benefits to being gay. It seems like that would be an assumption stemming from thinking that being gay has natural benefits.

To me, it makes perfect sense that people who are gay are just not selectively advantageous - end of story. Gays don't make kids, they lose in the eyes of nature. Honestly, this isn't rocket science. There are reasons why being gay would make a person happier (one being they wouldn't have to deal with the negative emotions needed to understand and tolerate the opposite sex), which is totally different than being selectively advantageous. In a perfect world, I'd understand exactly what was going on in a girls head, but truth is I have to take the time to tolerate differences of thought... caused by real neurobiological differences. This definitely beats down on my happiness when I'm not horny. I take the time to do this because it's important to me that I follow the advice put forth by my natural mechanisms. If it's not important to you to follow your natural mechanisms, you don't have to deal with this... but you'll theoretically not have any offspring, and lose in nature.

Why does every behavior need to have potential to be selectively advantageous? Bluntly, some behavior that is seen on our world will lose, and that behavior is not successful in the eyes of nature.


Evolutionary benefits explain existence of traits

People talk about the selective advantage of certain traits not because they are trying to say that these traits have benefits, but because they would not exist if they didn't have benefits. Gayness does not seem to be naturally beneficial because it doesn't lend to producing offspring, like you said. But if something about gayness weren't beneficial, the factors that make "gayness" would not be selected for and gay people wouldn't exist. But they do - and evolutionary psychologists are trying to figure out why. This has nothing to do with if a trait is good to society, and that's not what evolutionary psychologists are trying to argue. Our affinity for fat and sugar is awful for us now, but it exists because those who liked fat and sugar ate enough to survive and thus that trait was selected for.

Also, its possible that your willingness to tolerate the differences of female thought is not a logical effort to "follow your natural mechanisms" but a propensity based on your hormonal affinities for women; you deal with women because, as a straight man, you like them. What feels "natural" to us is a lot more complex than what we objectively define as "natural." Sometimes, I think, our objective definitions are often unnecessarily rigid.


Thanks for an interesting

Thanks for an interesting read! I've linked to you from my blog GenderPop (http://www.gender-pop.com).


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