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Reflections on the self, personality, and what makes you, "you."

By Joshua D. Foster and Ilan Shrira

Paranoia, 9/11, and the roots of conspiracy theories

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A large proportion of Americans believe some version of a cover-up or conspiracy theory about 9/11. Is this to be expected? Or have we entered an era where conspiracy thinking and paranoia have become a normal reaction to threatening events?  

Best advice for public speakers: "Just do it!"

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Imagine starting a term paper with the following statements:

"Before I begin, I just want to point out that I've had a cold for the past few days so my head's a little cloudy. Also, I didn't get much sleep the last few nights, so I'm really tired. Oh, and I had to kind of write this paper in a hurry. So if it's not the best thing in the world, please bear with me."

You wouldn't start a term paper like that, would you? So how come so many students begin their classroom speeches with similar statements?

Why do you worry more than other people?

In which situations do you get inhibited? When you're about to ask someone you know out on a date for the first time? When you want to tell someone to quit doing something that's really annoying you? When you're in the midst of having sex with your partner and you want to ask your partner to do something special for you?

Hysteria of the World: Part II

Do you think our society's morals are starting to deteriorate? We discuss why it might seem that way, and in what ways the values are actually changing.

 

Do narcissists really hate themselves deep down inside?

You probably have a pretty good idea of what a narcissist is. They're arrogant, self-absorbed, and generally speaking they're not too pleasant to be around. If you're like most people, you probably also assume one more thing--that narcissists dislike themselves deep down inside. A recent study, however, challenges this assumption.

Hysteria of the World: Part I

Do you think that our society is starting to take a turn for the worse? If you do, you've got company. We discuss why this perception is so widespread.

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