The compulsion to blame is a

The compulsion to blame is a measure of your ex's low core value, not yours. You can best get his abusive footprints off your soul by viewing the self-loathing that makes him irresponsible more compassionately. That will give you the power to heal yourself and open your heart to a more likely candidate in the future. Look at Love without Hurt at compassionpower.com.

Be compassionate to yourself.